Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Protect Yourself and Your Children

Protect Yourself And Your Children

   A post that I've seen several times on internet has brought to mind something that I posted on a Facebook site several months ago.  I am going to post it again because as the liberal element in this country runs more and more amuck, it seems this will become more of an issue.  

    This is the post from Facebook that spurred my thoughts:



This is what I posted several months ago:
Disclaimer: This is not legal advice. If you have any concerns of this nature, please see an attorney.

________'s post made me think of another legal sticky wicket that can sometimes crop up for families. I have a girlfriend in a custody battle for whom this is an issue right now. The problem is...having an irate or vindictive spouse or neighbor ( or someone else) calling child protective services on you to get revenge. This happens more than you can imagine. It's happened to me once and thank heavens for the advice given to me by a very good friend who is an attorney and has had to sue Utah several times on just this very subject.

The way he explained it is this. Child protective services is given money for every child that they 'free' from the home by the Feds. No removal of a child equals no money so the more children they take...whether deserved or not...the more money they get. (The feds did this because they can't legally enact laws for child protection...it is considered a state's jurisdictional right.) If you have counselors who are honestly there to help the children, then it may not become an issue. However, often there is a lot of pressure from their bosses to come up with numbers so that they have money in their budget.

The advice he gave me that saved my bacon when an abusive and vindictive ex-spouse falsely called child protective services was this:
1) When they show up at your door, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES LET THEM INTO YOUR HOME. If you do, you open up another whole can of worms if they see anything--however innocent--that they might consider or construe as abuse. (messy house, etc.) They cannot legally come into your home unless they have a warrant AND a police officer with them to serve it.  (They must have both!)

2) Instead tell them IN THESE WORDS this: " On the advice of an attorney, I will not allow you into my home. I will meet you in your office to discuss this. " Don't say anything else! If they persist in trying to get you to give information, repeat what my friend said to say. Make an appointment right then and there and then go to their office to talk. Make sure that you take a tape recorder (In this day and age, I might even take a camcorder) AND a witness with you when you go. Put the tape recorder on their desk where they can see it. If they protest, tell them that the legal advice you've been given is that every word between you and him/her is to be recorded. AND that you've brought your friend as a witness. If you're open about it up front, you can use anything they say in court...and they know it.

My friend said that they tend to 'pick' on those they see as defenseless. If you put out a strong front to begin with, that is often enough to get them to back off. It also helped that I knew which two individuals might have called and why. My ex actually told me that he was going to do it if I didn't do something that he wanted me to do. I laughed at him which probably made him even madder but I wasn't letting him bully me any more. The woman from child protective services seemed to be very interested by this when I told her. So I am certain that it was him (because they won't tell you who did it.)

3) And this is very important! DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING THAT THEY GIVE YOU! Don't even sign the letter that they send you telling you that if you sign it they will go away! My friend said that this just gives them the legal right to do just the opposite and then you may have to get an attorney to make them go away. The letter they send makes it sound very ominous like they have the legal right to come in and take your kids without legal due course if you don't sign it. They are lying! If you sign that letter, you are basically giving them 'carte blanche' to come and do that very thing. I don't know exactly why or how it works but my lawyer friend was very insistent that I don't sign ANYTHING from them (even to verify that you visited). If they try to force the issue, tell them that you will have to have an attorney look at the papers before you will be willing to sign them. Usually that will be enough to get them to back off. If they come back later looking for the papers, then do go see an attorney. It will be cheaper to do this at the beginning than to have to retain an attorney to try to prevent them from taking your kids because you signed something....or to try to get them back.

I realize that there are some children that should be taken from their homes but those are the exception rather than the rule. However, many individuals and families end up being harassed by a system undeservedly all in the name of the almighty dollar. My friend wanted to take it on nationally and try to get it changed but it was just too overwhelming for him. However, the counselors in Utah know his name and back off if they know the family knows him. I'd say that is a very good sign that he's done some good there.
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One thing that I failed to mention that is very important.  Immediately after the DFS worker leaves your home, take your child (children) in for a full physical.  DO IT THAT DAY!  Go to the emergency room if necessary and tell the physician why you are there and that you need documentation that the child is healthy and not abused physically in any way.  This is important because there have been accounts of DFS claiming that any signs of abuse had healed, etc.  You need PROOF that this is not the case.  Take those papers (a copy only...keep the original) in to your meeting with Child Protective Services.

Monday, March 18, 2013

Scripture Study

Alma 15



My header and key.  It includes two links that I often refer to while I am studying.
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Key: 
Green=Things that we should do             Blue=Blessings
Red= Things that we shouldn’t do           Brown=Consequences or curses
Orange= History/Historical items            Yellow/Gold=Spiritual insights

The things above are in a header in my document.  I have backed the yellow with pink so that it would be readable for me (and others).  Yellow doesn't tend to show up too well on the written page.


The Book of Alma the Son of Alma

Chapter 15

Alma and Amulek go to Sidom and establish a church—Alma heals Zeezrom, who joins the Church—Many are baptized, and the Church prospers—Alma and Amulek go to Zarahemla. About 81 B.C.

Alma 15
My Thoughts

And it came to pass that Alma and Amulek were commanded to depart out of that city; and they departed, and came out even into the land of Sidom; and behold, there they found all the people who had departed out of the land of aAmmonihah, who had been bcast out and stoned, because they believed in the words of Alma.
 And they related unto them all that had happened unto theirawives and children, and also concerning themselves, and of theirbpower of deliverance.
 And also Zeezrom lay sick at Sidom, with a burning fever, which was caused by the great tribulations of his mind on account of hisawickedness, for he supposed that Alma and Amulek were no more; and he supposed that they had been slain because of his iniquity. And this great sin, and his many other sins, did harrow up his mind until it did become exceedingly sore, having no deliverance; therefore he began to be scorched with a burning heat.
 Now, when he heard that Alma and Amulek were in the land of Sidom, his heart began to take courage; and he sent a message immediately unto them, desiring them to come unto him.
 And it came to pass that they went immediately, obeying the message which he had sent unto them; and they went in unto the house unto Zeezrom; and they found him upon his bed, sick, being very low with a burning fever; and his mind also was aexceedinglysore because of his iniquities; and when he saw them he stretched forth his hand, and besought them that they would heal him.
 And it came to pass that Alma said unto him, taking him by the hand: aBelievest thou in the power of Christ unto salvation?
 And he answered and said: Yea, I believe all the words that thou hast taught.
 And Alma said: If thou believest in the redemption of Christ thou canst be ahealed.
 And he said: Yea, I believe according to thy words.
 10 And then Alma cried unto the Lord, saying: O Lord our God, have amercy on this man, and bheal him according to his faith which is in Christ.
 11 And when Alma had said these words, aZeezrom leaped upon his feet, and began to walk; and this was done to the great astonishment of all the people; and the knowledge of this went forth throughout all the land of Sidom.
 12 And Alma baptized Zeezrom unto the Lord; and he began from that time forth to preach unto the people.
 13 And Alma established a church in the land of Sidom, and consecrated apriests and bteachers in the land, to baptize unto the Lord whosoever were desirous to be baptized.
 14 And it came to pass that they were many; for they did flock in from all the region round about Sidom, and were baptized.
 15 But as to the people that were in the land of Ammonihah, they yet remained a hard-hearted and a stiffnecked people; and they repented not of their sins, aascribing all the power of Alma and Amulek to the devil; for they were of the profession of bNehor, and did not believe in the repentance of their sins.
 16 And it came to pass that Alma and Amulek, Amulek havingaforsaken all his gold, and silver, and his precious things, which were in the land of Ammonihah, for the word of God, he beingbrejected by those who were once his friends and also by his father and his kindred;
 17 Therefore, after Alma having established the church at Sidom, seeing a great acheck, yea, seeing that the people were checked as to the pride of their hearts, and began to bhumble themselves before God, and began to assemble themselves together at theircsanctuaries to dworship God before the ealtarfwatching and praying continually, that they might be delivered from Satan, and from gdeath, and from destruction—
 18 Now as I said, Alma having seen all these things, therefore he took Amulek and came over to the land of Zarahemla, and took him to his aown house, and did administer unto him in his tribulations, and bstrengthened him in the Lord.
 19 And thus ended the tenth year of the reign of the judges over the people of Nephi.

  Alma and Amulek obey God's command for them to leave.

When they do, they find those that had been driven out.  They probably had no idea that they were still alive because they had been imprisoned.  As far as Alma and Amulek knew....everyone had been murdered. 
I'm sure that their joy was great at finding survivors. I wonder if Amulek's family was among them?

Alma and Amulek had to tell them about the deaths of their families.





Zeezrom's guilt is making him physically ill.


Be faithful over a few things…from this I get the implication that it doesn’t matter how much we have or have not in mortality.  What matters is how we use what we have been given…how do we administer and/or magnify our stewardships?

Saturday, March 2, 2013


Scripture Study

 

     Several years ago, a member of the Seventy came to our Stake for a Women's conference.  He talked about scripture study and suggested a system to us.
  1. Get a cheap Book of Mormon
  2. Get some colored pencils with which to mark them
  3. Mark them in a manner similar to this (this is how he showed us and how I do it with one variation)
  4. Take notes on what we study.
  • Orange--Historical facts, events
  • Yellow--Insights (Spiritual, etc.)
  • Green--Things we should do
  • Blue--positive consequences.....the blessings we receive from God for doing those things or just because...
  • Red--things we shouldn't do
  • Brown--the curses or consequences of doing the things that we shouldn't
     He promised some marvelous things if we would do this....which included a greater understanding of the scriptures as well as God's purposes. There are also bountiful materials blessings that attend such understanding as well.  As we've been told, God will bless us materially according to the levels of righteousness that we aspire to.  The only thing we must do is remember the purpose for which He blesses us....to bless the lives of others in turn.  Too many forget this.

     I must say that this is true.  My life has been blessed many fold since I started this program.  I have been doing it for several years now and have only managed to get a little over half way through the Book of Mormon.  However, I have learned things that I never could have imagined and the spirit has directed my learning (which often coincides with events in my daily life).  I have tweaked it a bit so that I could do it electronically.  Many of my early notes are on paper but I will do it on here from now on so that we can do it together.  Please share your insights in the comments.  I look forward to growing spiritually together.


My header and key.  It includes two links that I often refer to while I am studying.
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Key: 
Green=Things that we should do             Blue=Blessings
Red= Things that we shouldn’t do           Brown=Consequences or curses
Orange= History/Historical items            Yellow/Gold=Spiritual insights

The things above are in a header in my document.  I have backed the yellow with pink so that it would be readable for me (and others).  Yellow doesn't tend to show up too well on the written page.


The Book of Alma the Son of Alma
Chapter 14
Alma and Amulek are imprisoned and smitten—The believers and their holy scriptures are burned by fire—These martyrs are received by the Lord in glory—The prison walls are rent and fall—Alma and Amulek are delivered, and their persecutors are slain. About 82–81 B.C.

Alma 14
My Thoughts
And it came to pass after he had made an end of speaking unto the people many of them did believe on his words, and began to repent, and to search the ascriptures.
 But the more part of them were desirous that they might destroy Alma and Amulek; for they were angry with Alma, because of the aplainness of his words unto Zeezrom; and they also said that Amulek had blied unto them, and had reviled against their law and also against their lawyers and judges.
 And they were also angry with Alma and Amulek; and because they had atestified so plainly against their wickedness, they sought to bput them away privily.
 But it came to pass that they did not; but they took them and bound them with strong cords, and took them before the chief judge of the land.
 And the people went forth and witnessed against them—testifying that they had reviled against the law, and their lawyers and judges of the land, and also of all the people that were in the land; and also testified that there was but one God, and that he should send his Son among the people, but he should anot save them; and many such things did the people testify against Alma and Amulek. Now this was done before the chief judge of the land.
 And it came to pass that Zeezrom was astonished at the words which had been spoken; and he also knew concerning the ablindness of the minds, which he had caused among the people by his blying words; and his soul began to be charrowed up under a dconsciousness of his own guilt; yea, he began to be encircled about by the pains of hell.
 And it came to pass that he began to cry unto the people, saying: Behold, I am aguilty, and these men are spotless before God. And he began to plead for them from that time forth; but they reviled him, saying: Art thou also possessed with the devil? And they spit upon him, and bcast him out from among them, and also all those who believed in the words which had been spoken by Alma and Amulek; and they cast them out, and sent men to cast stones at them.
 And they brought their wives and children together, and whosoever believed or had been taught to believe in the word of God they caused that they should be acast into the fire; and they also brought forth their records which contained the holy scriptures, and cast them into the fire also, that they might be bburned and destroyed by fire.
 And it came to pass that they took Alma and Amulek, and carried them forth to the place of amartyrdom, that they might witness the destruction of those who were consumed by fire.

 10 And when Amulek saw the pains of the women and children who were consuming in the fire, he also was pained; and he said unto Alma: How can we witness this awful scene? Therefore let us stretch forth our hands, and exercise the apower of God which is in us, and save them from the flames.
11 But Alma said unto him: The Spirit constraineth me that I must not stretch forth mine hand; for behold the Lord receiveth them up unto himself, in aglory; and he doth suffer that they may do this thing, or that the people may do this thing unto them, according to the hardness of their hearts, that the bjudgments which he shall exercise upon them in his wrath may be just; and the cblood of the dinnocent shall stand as a witness against them, yea, and cry mightily against them at the last day.


 12 Now Amulek said unto Alma: Behold, perhaps they will burn us also.
 13 And Alma said: Be it according to the will of the Lord. But, behold, our work is not finished; therefore they burn us not.
 14 Now it came to pass that when the bodies of those who had been cast into the fire were consumed, and also the records which were cast in with them, the chief judge of the land came and stood before Alma and Amulek, as they were bound; and he smote them with his hand upon their acheeks, and said unto them: After what ye have seen, will ye preach again unto this people, that they shall be cast into a blake of fire and brimstone?
 15 Behold, ye see that ye had not power to save those who had been cast into the fire; neither has God saved them because they were of thy faith. And the judge smote them again upon their cheeks, and asked: What say ye for yourselves?
 16 Now this judge was after the order and faith of aNehor, who slew Gideon.
 17 And it came to pass that Alma and Amulek answered him anothing; and he smote them again, and delivered them to the officers to be bcast into prison.
 18 And when they had been cast into prison three days, there came many alawyers, and judges, and priests, and teachers, who were of the profession of Nehor; and they came in unto the prison to see them, and they questioned them about many words; but they answered them nothing.
 19 And it came to pass that the judge stood before them, and said: Why do ye not answer the words of this people? Know ye not that I have apower to deliver you up unto the flames? And he bcommanded them to speak; but they answered nothing.
 20 And it came to pass that they departed and went their ways, but came again on the morrow; and the judge also smote them again on their cheeks. And many came forth also, and smote them, saying: Will ye stand again and judge this people, and condemn our law? If ye have such great power why do ye not adeliver yourselves?
 21 And many such things did they say unto them, gnashing their teeth upon them, and spitting upon them, and saying: How shall we look when we are damned?
 22 And many such things, yea, all manner of such things did they say unto them; and thus they did amock them for many days. And they did withhold food from them that they might hunger, and water that they might thirst; and they also did take from them their clothes that they were naked; and thus they were bbound with strong cords, and confined in cprison.
 23 And it came to pass after they had thus suffered for many days, (and it was on the twelfth day, in the tenth month, in the tenth year of the reign of the judges over the people of Nephi) that the chief judge over the land of aAmmonihah and many of their teachers and their lawyers went in unto the prison where Alma and Amulek were bound with cords.
 24 And the chief judge stood before them, and smote them again, and said unto them: If ye have the apower of God deliver yourselves from these bands, and then we will believe that the Lord will destroy this people according to your words.
 25 And it came to pass that they all went forth and smote them, saying the same words, even until the last; and when the last had spoken unto them the apower of God was upon Alma and Amulek, and they rose and stood upon their feet.
 26 And Alma cried, saying: How long shall we suffer these great aafflictions, O Lord? O Lord, bgive us strength according to our faith which is in Christ, even unto cdeliverance. And they broke the cords with which they were bound; and when the people saw this, they began to flee, for the fear of destruction had come upon them.
 27 And it came to pass that so great was their fear that they fell to the earth, and did not obtain the outer door of the aprison; and the earth shook mightily, and the walls of the prison were rent in twain, so that they fell to the earth; and the chief judge, and the lawyers, and priests, and teachers, who smote upon Alma and Amulek, were slain by the fall thereof.
 28 And Alma and Amulek came forth out of the prison, and they were not hurt; for the Lord had granted unto them apower, according to their faith which was in Christ. And they straightway came forth out of the prison; and they were bloosed from their cbands; and the prison had fallen to the earth, and every soul within the walls thereof, save it were Alma and Amulek, was slain; and they straightway came forth into the city.
 29 Now the people having heard a great noise came running together by multitudes to know the cause of it; and when they saw Alma and Amulek coming forth out of the prison, and the walls thereof had fallen to the earth, they were struck with great fear, and fled from the presence of Alma and Amulek even as a goat fleeth with her young from two lions; and thus they did flee from the presence of Alma and Amulek..

Many of the people believe Alma and Amulek and begin to change their lives.



Most of the people did not but sought to destroy Alma and Amulek.  They began to fabricate lies in an attempt to find some reason to destroy them.





Some wanted to take and lynch them but didn’t.




God was protecting them….somehow they turned from murder and took them to the judge.  They took them before the chief judge.


They are angered by the truth.

But they also made up lies about what Alma and Amulek said.

The truth
I am sure that Alma and Amulek did not say this.  The probably said that He would not save the wicked….they were wicked so this may actually be what they ‘heard’ even though it isn’t what the prophets said.

Zeezron realizes too late who Alma and Amulek are and what he has done by his maneuverings among the people.  He knows he is at least in part responsible for their actions towards these prophets.

This happens to the best of us.  We make mistakes that we wish we could take back but once the damage is done.  That is impossible.

Zeezrom was a skilled orator and lawyer.  Even his skill could not turn the people from their designs.

The people turned on Zeezrom too and accuse him of being possessed with a devil.  So they do not believe that he is saying this of his own free will…..or they just simply don’t want to believe it.  Because that would mean that they would have to reexamine what they want to do.
They cast out Zeezrom and all the other men that believed in Alma and Amulek.

Then they took their wives and children (probably even Zeezrom’s family), all of the other believers, and the scriptures that they possessed and burned them.
How wicked they must have been to be able to murder innocent women and children especially in this manner!

They force Alma and Amulek to watch.  Probably either to:  1.  Shame them as if to tell them this was their fault and/or 2. Scare them and try to make them recant so it doesn’t also happen to them.

Amulek is justly pained and saddened by the wickedness of these events and the murder of so many innocents.  He wants to stop it and knows that the priesthood has the power to do so.  However, he defers to Alma the higher authority for counsel. 
God could have saved them but for some reason He did not.  Alma knows His will.


Alma explains God’s reasoning to Amulek.
   It is the great separation of the wheat from the chaff.  We help God to achieve this so that only those who earn it will be able to return to His Kingdom.  But more especially so that those who are not ‘like-minded’ do not come there with us.
   From my experience with the ‘other world’ that would be an even greater torture than what these individuals suffered.  We can feel each others’ feelings and sense others’ intent.  I do not want these types of individuals there to pollute it.  Bearing it in this world is hard enough.

Again Amulek defers to Alma...the prophet...asking him for understanding

Alma comforts Amulek and professes that all is according to God's will but prophesies that they will be delivered.

 It sounds like this wicked, wicked man did all of this just to spite Alma and Amulek and show them who was boss.  More than likely this man knows who Alma is and that he used to be the chief judge of the Nephite nation and is also the prophet.  It's like he's doing it to prove that he is better and more powerful than Alma is. 

"You can convert them but then I'll kill them."  What a wicked man!


He's taunting them.  Trying to force them to do or say something that he  can condemn them for.  Even in his wickedness he knows that if he were to harm Alma, the Nephite leaders and the army would be on his doorstep.

He was part of an anti group.


Arguing with such a man would make no difference.  He would only twist their words and use them against them.


A very hardened and wicked group….Alma knew that there was very little chance that he would listen to anything that the Lord had to tell him. These people were experts at twisting anything that anyone said.
The chief judge can’t find a valid reason to legally condemn them to death so instead he throws them into prison…. so he can continue the attempt to get them to say something that he can twist to his advantage.

He has not succeeded so he brings in others of his twisted mind to help in the attempt.
I am sure that Alma was inspired in this by the spirit.
The chief judge tries to intimidate Alma and Amulek into speaking.  They knew that they should not. 
What a liar!  He did not have legal grounds to condemn them and he knew it.  He certainly is trying to create a legal reason though but he is being very ‘careful’ in his treatment of Alma.  He knows what it would probably bring upon him and this people if he acted without ‘justification’.

So they are no longer using just words because their words (which they feel are so superior) have failed them.  They now resort to torture, violence, and physical abuse.


They even bit them?  Getting desperate?
Did they think that this would get them the response that they were looking for?


The torture continues for who knows how long.  This reminds me of the prophet Joseph Smith…especially when he was being held in that dungeoness pit of a cell.  
They won’t even give them food and water. They also take their clothing. Are they hoping that they will die from starvation and/or exposure so that they can then claim that they didn’t know why these two had died while in their custody.  Probably.
They continue to torture Alma and Amulek.
They get impatient.







And finally, they ask for a sign.  Stupid, wicked people…signs usually bring bad things for the wicked.




They all say the samething.


This must be what God was waiting to hear from them. 

They continue to torture Alma and Amulek.
They get impatient.







And finally, they ask for a sign.  Stupid, wicked people…signs usually bring bad things for the wicked.




They all say the samething.


This must be what God was waiting to hear from them. 



They now know that God is with Alma and Amulek.  They have to at least wonder now if Alma’s words regarding their impending destruction is true.  

I am sure that they are very fearful that it is.  And yet, they still would rather run away than turn and change.


Be faithful over a few things…from this I get the implication that it doesn’t matter how much we have or have not in mortality.  What matters is how we use what we have been given…how do we administer and/or magnify our stewardships?

Discerning of Spirits by Power of Priesthood   (JTPJS 205)
Every one of these professes to be competent to try his neighbor’s spirit, but no one can try his own, and what is the reason? Because they have not a key to unlock, no rule wherewith to measure, and no criterion whereby they can test it. Could any one tell the length, breadth or height of a building without a rule? Test the quality of metals without a criterion, or point out the movements of the planetary systems, without a knowledge of astronomy? Certainly not; and if such ignorance as this is manifested about a spirit of this kind, who can describe an angel of light? If Satan should appear as one in glory,6 who can tell his color, his signs, his appearance, his glory, or what is the manner of his manifestation? Who can detect the spirit of the French prophets with their revelations and their visions, and power of manifestations? Or who can point out the spirit of the Irvingites, with their apostles and prophets, and visions and tongues, and interpretations, etc. Or who can drag into daylight and develop the hidden mysteries7 of the false spirits8 that so frequently are made manifest among the Latter-day Saints?9 We answer that no man can do this without the Priesthood,10 and having by which spirits are governed; for as no man knows the things of God, but by the Spirit of God,1 so no man knows the spirit of the devil, and his power and influence, but by possessing intelligence which is more than human, and having unfolded through the medium of the Priesthood the mysterious operations of his devices; without knowing the angelic form, the sanctified look and gesture, and the zeal that is frequently manifested by him for the glory of God,2 together with the prophetic spirit, the gracious influence, the godly appearance, and the holy garb, which are so characteristic of his proceedings and his mysterious windings.
A man must have the discerning of spirits3 before he can drag into daylight this hellish influence and unfold it unto the world in all its soul-destroying, diabolical, and horrid colors; for nothing is a greater injury to the children of men than to be under the influence of a false spirit when they think they have the Spirit of God. Thousands have felt the influence of its terrible power and baneful effects. Long pilgrimages have been undertaken, penances endured, and pain, misery and ruin have followed in their train; nations have been convulsed, kingdoms overthrown, provinces laid waste, and blood, carnage and desolation are habiliments in which it has been clothed.
This is why I must know if this revelation is of God or not….the priesthood has that power.


Thought from Alma 12:24
We can compare this to society’s obsession with health and developing healthy minds and bodies. 
We know that what we DO with our bodies determines what they will look like and how well they will function.  Why then is it such a reach for people to transfer that to an eternal perspective.  What we DO with our minds and bodies IN THE HERE AND NOW determines what our eternal bodies will look like and how well they will function IN THE ETERNITIES.  The only way that this differs is in its application.